Does your partner follow you? Frequently call, email or text you? Keep tabs on you through the use of social media? Show up unexpectedly? Leave unwanted items (flowers, notes, etc.) on your car or at your home or job? Has your partner installed a tracking device on your car or cell phone? Has your partner threatened you? Has your partner stolen your identity in order to ruin your credit and limit your ability to secure housing or purchase a vehicle? Stalking is against the law and there is help available  http://www.ncvc.org